[JavaBrewer]

Honestly, bringing the Police into the mix would be the last thing I would recommend. That said, I can in no way offer you any suggestions on what to do next. Way way way more information would be needed and even then probably not enough. Every kid is different and needs a custom tailored approach. Our daughter is now 5 and causes us a ton of grief. Don't laugh because I see myself in your shoes 10 years from now. She insists on constantly challenging authority and pushing the bounds. I am still trying to come to grips on how to keep her in check. I'll close by saying that your number one priority should be to make sure SHE knows you love and support her, no matter what. Your love, and demonstration there of, will outlast any situations or mindsets. Best of luck to you.