[widebody911]

Wasn't she already 'rebelling' the minute she started doing weed?

There's no point in fighting with her, you can already see what she thinks of your 'authority'. Let the cops handle it, they're much better prepared to deal with it, and if she decides to get snooty and rebellious with them, the consequences are different. What she's doing is illegal. Trying to shield her from that aspect of it is legitimizing it in a small way. She can either play by your rules and live in the comfort of your home, or play it her way and spend a few nights with a 400lb bulldyke named Bertha.

To get back on her 'friends' list means you will be forced to 'understand' and 'accept' her transgressions. I'm a flaming liberal, but this is too much even for me.

Disclaimer: I've never done any illegal substances, never hung out with people who did, and I don't have teenagers.