[notfarnow]

Howdy folks,

I'm gettin hitched in 3 weeks, and would like to learn from the vast pool of knowledge here. I know some of you have wonderful marriages, and some of you have not-so wonderful ones. Some of you are divorced... some more than once.

What have you done right?
What have you done wrong?
What should you be doing but aren't?
What are you doing but shouldn't be?
If you had to give one piece of advice for a long, happy marriage, what would it be?