[pbs911]

My advise would be to marry because you want to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE with that ONE person AND YOU WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN. There is no other reason in today's world. Do not get married for the sake of being married.

Before getting married, be sure you have done EVERYTHING you want to do in life. Once married your freedom to do as you wish is gone. EVERYTHING you do MUST be done for the benefit, or at least not to the detriment, of your spouse or the marriage. Marriage means the days of doing things simply for yourself are over.

Be prepared to give and not take. Do not expect your spouse to do ANYTHING you want. Be prepared to clean up after two people. Be prepared to give up things that mean the most to you. Women change when married. Men change when married. The relationship changes when married. Nothing will be the same.

Marry only a woman who is your best friend, your best lover and hot.

Do not marry a woman who has never lived on her own.

Do not marry a woman who runs home to her family if there is a problem.

Do not live within 10 miles of her family, or your family, after getting married.

Do have a prenupt.

Do throw away all your porn.

Do not look at ANY other woman.

Agree with her when see says [any beautiful woman here] is fake, not pretty, etc.

Have sex at least three times a week, for the rest of your life.

Bring flowers.

Tell her you love her every day.

Do not go to bed mad.

Kiss her every morning when you wake up.

Kiss her every night before you go to sleep.

Understand that when you have children, she will love the children more than you. You will now be second.

I can go on and on.

Print out this thread and read it time to time.