[notfarnow]

very good advice zoltan...

I am particularly interested in your words about prenups. I have difficulty considering them as marriage advice... seems more like pre-emptive divorce advice. We aren't getting a pre-nup. I'm kind ain teh same boat as you... she could take everything, my "stuff" doesn't much matter. Not that she's the materialistic type... she didn't want me to buy an engagement ring, she wanted us to get something we'd both enjoy. We commissioned a painting instead, of the deli we used to work at 10 years ago... that's where we met.