[M.D. Holloway]

Good Luck and hopefully you will look at her the same in 20 yrs as you do now.

Just remember that the wedding is her day. She may be a bundle of nerves until it is happening. Just deal with it. She will be on stage and everyone will be focused on her. She will be the "queeen" for the day. Let her have it. Make sure you tell her many times how beautiful she is and how much you are looking forward to your life together.

After it, the let down will be a little rough. Make the best of the honeymoon. Make sure she "" twice as many times as you. That is your mission! In fact, make that your charter.

Share the chores even if you work full time and she doesn't.

Start a savings plan and keep to it - even if it is a few bucks a week.

Set your goals for the house and future together and stay on track. She my let it slip and then again you may - keep the focus. It will help in the long run.

Listen more than ever - shut off the TV and look at her prattle on when she goes into some idiotic rant. Just listen and be supportive.

Never get between her and a family member or if she gets into you about your mother. No matter what, she is #1, all else is #2.