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One tthing perhaps missed....no matter how often you court, buy presents, give, give, give or anything else... if you cannot make her laugh and have a good laugh and good fun (other than that) together you might find it all goes pear shaped..
You gotta be able to laugh at similar films, books, shows, enjoy the similar hobbies, activites and share what you are with her and be able to have her share what she is with you.
I got lucky with my better half, not married, nor do we plan to but we enjoy similar things.. yes she likes the old motor, she has one of her own, and lets me spend whatever I can afford on it, not what we can afford...it gives our son great pleasure to potter around with me messing with the car.. 'helping' me fix it..hell he even came to give a hand on an engine drop the other day...well he was in the paddling pool and garden while we were under the car.
I look after her car as well, so she knows that I'm not just pottering around doing my own thing, she 'benefits' from it as well.
Being with somebody, married or not is not difficult....its just hard work that with intelligence and good humour is the best thing ever....
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