[onewhippedpuppy]

Take everything on yourself. If you have plans to go out, and she doesn't feel like it, tell your friends that YOU don't feel like it.

Share everything. It's a team effort, and there's no I in team.

Humor her. No doubt 99% of the wives of Pelican members wish their husbands had never heard of a Porsche, and yet they tolerate it. She may have stupid ***** she's into too, deal with it.

EXPECT to not get sex, but never quit trying. You are not entitled to it, if you could plot my sex life it would look like a sine curve, sometimes you're at the peak, sometimes you're at the trough.

My other faves from this great thread, communication, never go to bed angry, don't take what you have for granted, always try to look at her the way you did the first time you met her, and don't go to bed angry. If necessary, fight naked, you forget pretty quickly what you were mad about.

Pre-nup thoughts on my part, to me it's a preperation for a potential future divorce, and if you're already planning for divorce before you're married, it's a setup for failure. If you aren't sure if you can make it, YOU SHOULDN'T GET MARRIED! Something 50% of the country hasn't picked up on yet. I can't remember what movie it was in, but the line "where there is doubt, there is no doubt" suits marriage well.

We've only been married three years, but Andrea and I are building the life I've always dreamed about together. It's often hard, but always rewarding. We have a 15mo. old little boy, and are planning for more. Marry the right person, and live your life together with no regrets. Congrats!