Congratulations again... What happened? Did your wife have a change of heart?
To snip or not to snip. A friend of mine's wife thought it was barbaric too. She convinced him there was no need. At 3.5 years old my friend's son kept having reoccuring infections. So, instead of getting snipped as a baby my friend's son had it done before he turned 4. Which was more barbaric?
I know you've been preggers for a while, but have you listened to "Arms Wide Open" lately? It might sound a little different now.
http://ibafoolkitty.homestead.com/Arms_Wide_Open.html