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Jim brought up another excellent point, though. Never speak ill of the ex in the presence of the kids. It is important for them to understand what happened, though. My ex ran off with a guy she worked with and as a result of me not bad mouthing her in front of my son, he grew up never really understanding what happened (obviously she never wanted him to know the truth of her infidelity). He was six when we divorced and merely though that mommy didn't want to live with daddy any more. This caused him some mental anguish over the years as when he finally found out the truth, alot of his confusion dissappeared.

Unfortunately, I beleive that kids are the ones that suffer the most in a divorce. Do the best you can to look for them in this difficult time.

Mike