livi, this is excellent:
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I am talking about the need for the kids to feel that the two people in the world they love most and are utterly dependent on, are friends and working together for the well being of their children.
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Maybe I missed it nostatic, but why does she have physical custody? Didn't the possibility of a move ever occur to you during the custody hearing? I have read many of your posts and replies and you don't seem like the type of person that would let something like this slip past.
JIMCRY. if I offended you I apologize. I disagree with getting the children involved under any circumstances in any aspect. I am 22 years divorced with physical custody in a joint custody agreement. I bit the bullet and gave up my share of the house, which I built by hand, and absorbed all marital debt. I was focused on raising our son and I wanted my ex to be too. Not writing a check every month is the way to go.