[austin552]

A man and woman at my work are being sent to Iraq SOON. There is a party Sat. night for them. I dont know who woman is, but the guy is a jerk. He carries an attitude and does not seem friendly at all despite a couple attempts by me to talk. He parks in visitors spaces all the time. His car was even towed once and he threatened to quit unless it was brought back, which it was.

I support our troops everywhere and kind of feel I need to go to this party and shake his hand despite my opinion.
What would you do?