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Considering the distance between you, if you have doubts, I would move on. Like already stated, even if a woman gets into shape for you, they almost always revert back to their original form.
On the other hand, I see guys with champagne tastes on a beer budget. They expect a 9, but are only capable of getting a 6. After many women, I decided on the complete package, I lived with a woman that people could perceive as a solid 8.5, but she was a complete basket case. After that relationship, looks became less of a priority, although a smokin body was still high on the list. I didn't want a but'er face, but wanted a well rounded (figuratively) person.
I actually made a list of what I was looking for & their priorities. When I met my wife, she fit the bill. After about a year, I was thinking of bailing before we moved in together. Just before I was gonna call it off, I happened across my list. While I read it I realized she was still exactly what I was looking for & that I just had to accept her short comings, nobody's perfect.
I have a good friend that was dating two women, one was super hot, but pretty shallow, the other was cute & a little over weight, but an awesome person. He married the latter, it's only been a couple of years, but they seem real happy.
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Paul
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