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Chris,
I think you are reacting the the difference between the fantasy of long distance vs. the reality of in person. Before you met face to face everything you knew about her was exactly what she wanted to show you. Now you have had the chance to meet her in person, and you get to see everything: the good and the bad. Until you spend significant time with someone in person you don't get to know them.
I also agree with you that physical attraction is important. I am in love with my wife AND I love to see her nude. If she turned me off physically there is no way I ever would have married her. My advice is move on. And for your own sanity keep it local.
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