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Originally posted by dmoolenaar
but very few solid relationships are ever founded by guys with shopping lists.
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I don't know if your comment was directed at my post, but having a list is a good idea! A therapist is the one who presented me with the idea to help me avoid some of the pitfalls from my past. It worked great, I eliminated about a dozen women & it helped me stay focused on the long term. I didn't get caught up in love or sex & was able to keep fairly objective. I believe I have a choice in who I fall in love with. I'm a little old for "Love at first sight".
I'd be curious what you base your opinion on.