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Considering that I just moved here, not much for options from what I've seen. Sure, pleanty of girls look good, but how many actually 'aspire' to be a better person, and work towards acheiving goals. I'm very driven, and require my partner to do so. Looking good doesn't work for me, and frankly it's always disgusted me how some great looking women just slide through life on their looks............that is until their husbands trade them in for someone 15 years younger and better looking. Looks only go so far.
I'm not living in a fantasy, I'd not have commited to this relationship if I 100% didn't feel it in my heart. I do know what love is, but we've not had the benefit of being in eachothers presence like most people do. Having been in love once before, I know whole heartidly that you don't just 'choose' to fall in love with someone. It either happens or it doesn't.
K means more to me than anyone or anything in my life. She inspires me and makes my heart melt.
Aren't I just being foolish here? Can't I just work with her and help her workout more and be more physically active? It's not like she DOESNT want to, but rather from what she's told me, she's not been trained properly. I work out 4-6 days a week, but I do it for me and my partner. I want my body to be something my partner is proud of as well as me. Maybe something wrong in that, I mean, I really primarily do it b/c it makes me feel good. And looking good makes me feel good.
She does have some insecurities, and i feel that some of those stem from her physical state. Like I said (and that picture doesn't do her justice TRUST me) she's gorgeous........and I am in Love with her, ****, I can't imagine my life w/o her. Or what my life was like before her. I feel if I walk away from her I'd be foolish.
Isn't something worth the commitment worth sticking it out and helping the situation? Nothing wrong in being supportive is there? Are you guys saying that no amount of gym or work towards that physical goal is going to change my views?
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