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John is right. I generally find that lust is a key component in forming a relationship. Without that basis of desire, you can't go through the normal ups and downs of being emotionally intimate with someone.
Paradoxically, I have found sexual attraction is not perfectly linked to physical attributes. I dated a couple of centerfold types that did nothing for me, but one or two women most of you guys would rate no more than a "6" drove me crazy.
On the other hand, you have to be honest that the issue is between you and her -- not between you and what you think the world's perception of you will be. If the latter is the case, you are not ready for a real relationship.
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