[JavaBrewer]

Now at 40 with 2 kids my wife is hotter than when we were married.

Don't take my comments to mean that married folks should accept their spouse giving up on their personal appearance. I just think folks need to be reasonable in their expectations. A few wrinkles, sags/droops, etc... as the years go by are normal and should not be an issue. Adding 100 lbs might be.