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Originally posted by likemystoppie?
I guess I misstaded what I said earlier.........my apologies....she DOES have attributes that which I find 'sexually appealing'. She does. In fact, my personal gut instint is that a little gym time (with me supporting her) and help with her whole regimine she'd be F***ing hot. I mean, she get's hit on all the time. And I've seen it. I HATE this ABOUT myself. I hate it. I just have always imagined myself with a rather voluptluous girl, big natural boobs, great legs...ect..........
but as I look back, the one time i was in love, everyone was like "Chris, she's nothing like you've dated before. She's 'ok', but you've done WAY better'. Indeed I have, but I did fall in love with her. And in time, she was the SEXIEST girl I've ever seen...................Until I met K.
But I feel I'm just not giving it enough time here..........for us to be 'physical' together to go thru the ups and downs......out of that creates or destroys a relationship yes?
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Chris, you are indeed the spitting image of the guys I was talking about. I'm NOT saying that makes you bad or any other crap. In fact I wish I could find the culprit that makes men feel/act this way (denying ourselves happiness). In the end that's what you're doing. Again I'm not telling you what you should do with this particular girl either way. You couldn't possibly give us enough info to say. What I'm trying to say is..strip away the superficial BS and ask yourself if she makes you happy and if you make her happy. We've already established that lust exists, so move on to the other stuff.