[targa911S]

My first wife kept my balls in a jar in her panty drawer. Every once in a while I was allowed to have them back and play with them. That's why she is my ex. My current wife of 24 years, also a divorcee, is the best. We are best friends. However, when it comes to money we have 3 checking accounts. Mine, hers, and house account. We both pay into house and it floats the boat. Mine is mine, hers is hers. We even loan each other money. Now things like cars, or any other major purchase, would fall under house account. That requires a unilateral decision. I have bought cheap cars and just brought them home. I also have slept with those cars for a while. Forgiveness is easier to get than permission sometimes but you have to be willing to take the heat for a while. Sometimes it's worth it.