[livi]

If you really knew, deep in your heart and stomach, that this is the woman you want - your would not have posted this in the first place.

Sounds to me you need to spend more time with her. DO NOT make any commitments before you have that gut feeling. Time with a person is essential and will give you the answer (and her too for that matter).

Traits or "body issues" that you maybe concerned about today may not bother you at all later - on the other hand you (or she) may discover other disadvantages with each other that will turn out to be of even greater concern.

Like to rephrase my former tip - "when in doubt, cut it out" to when in doubt, wait it out...