[lendaddy]

Thanks Richard, I'm not sure I deserve it but thanks regardless. I have followed your personal story as it reminds me of my brother (not sure if you recall that discussion hint:divorces) and I'm glad to see you're happy! If you can find it, I'm sure he can too....so many similarities.

The truth is that I use to really think I had it figured out, could help almost everyone.... I don't think that way anymore, mostly because many people don't want to be helped. They develop either a love for the game (the adrenaline rush of entering a room with arm candy, etc...) or they fall into a self destructive sex-centric lifestyle (addictive like heroin) and ultimately deep depression.

Some "grow-up" as Richard and I have said. They end up happier than they ever thought possible, all by rejecting the lifestyle/thought process they previously viewed as their only source of happiness. Weird stuff.