[mikester]

Paternity test - ensure you are truely in this position. If you are then you are going to be a father. I hope that's alright with you because the child will need you more than you can imagine.

Prepare to be the father emotionally and legally by ensuring your rights through the courts of she will not agree to them on her own.

Get a lawyer's advice as soon as you get the test results back; if she won't submit to a test - get a lawyer then.