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I am usually for the liberal peace and mutual understanding path....go ahead and try that.....while you lawyer up big time. Verbal agreements are less than worthless in these situations. GET A LAWYER.
I think you need to ask yourself some questions about what will be acceptable to you and for your child. 25 years from now, you will know an adult who also happens to be your child. That person will look back on their life, and your role in it. What are they going to say about you? What are you going think about yourself as a parent at that point?
If this woman is going to bear your child, you need to make sure that you have a LEGAL stake in the child's life.
One positive: having children is awesome. I had zero interest in having kids, but when my daughter came along....wow. What a gem.
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