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Oh boy this is great..
First off its a shame your expectations (ie a hot Florida chicky) is being superimposed on a UK (and London at that) person.
I think you are making it worse for yourself....if you can see thor that then you'll be able to work it out.. if not then move on.
As Agatha Chrisite once said.. the best husband you can have is an archaeologist... as you get older they get more interested.
So what's the real priority... somebody you can have a good time with over the most trivial thing... who will become part of your life.. and who you think is pretty attractive and interesting.. or a 'trophy' that others will admired and envy but who will be an ornament and only share a bit (the sack) of your life....?
Ideally you'd have the most glamourous hottie who is the most intelligent and caring person on earth who admires and respects you... but all things being equal we gotta find a real person.
I went from living with a fanastic young lady, the picture perfect young mom... fit, sexy and rich, to a much plainer lady with none of the 'kerb appeal' but a character to die for and an approach to life to aspire to.... now I know which works in the long run and which allows me to be part of a better partnership...
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