*bump*
Yes I have seen the movie. UPDATE. My girlfriend and I laid all our cards on the table....and since we've cleared the air things have been INCREDIBLE. The advantage of dating someone close in the area is that you get to either like or dislike their little 'nuances' or whatever pretty quickly or slowly. Usually the latter. People can take months to admit to themselves they don't like a person or.......do.
We've established our relationship by getting to the meat of things, and asking the important questionS, as well as just 'talking' and 'listening' to one another. - a lost art in people my age I think.
Regardless-after K revealed that she was dissappointed a little bit about the fact that I'm not as 'large' as the guys she normally dates- I'm 5'11" 190lbs-built, but not like Pro body builder-not that big....but apparently she's dated a few guys who are like 6' to 6'3" and built like Rugby players....she mentioned on more then a few occasions about a 2 particular pictures that she liked of me, but IMO were'nt the true representation of what I looked like on daily basis. But she mentioned them and it finally hit me that I think she thought I was more like "those" pictures.
Anyways......the short of the long of it is...... we fell deep in love with eachother, but didn't have the advantage of seeing eachother as often. She just spent 12 days with me, and though the first four days were diffiucult.....once we were 100% open and honest, I can honestly say....that we just had the most incredible time with eachother.
I'm completely adore her. And I'm extremely happy that things turned out like they did.
Thanks to all for all your advice! Good/bad and funny!!
