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I had a very similar situation in high school.

Run.

Do not pass go.

Do not collect $200.

If you stay will her, the mind games will:

1) Get worse.

OR

2) Get worse.

I wasted two years of my life trying to "fix" a relationship like this. When I could have been single and much happier or dating other girls and much happier. Her goal is to turn you in to her lap dog. She wants to see how much she can get you to beg; how much she can control you.

I did learn some valuable life lessons from that experience:

1) Run from psycho chicks.

2) Ultimately, one person is in control of a relationship. It can operate as a partnership most of the time, but when the $h!t hits the fan, there needs to be someone willing to take charge. That person needs to be me.

3) There are better women out there, you don't need to hang on to what you've got now. In the words of a very wise man: "There is a time and a place for everything. That time is college."
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