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Originally posted by mikester
Just the stupid ones - which in reality is probably most of us at your age.
Run man; You'll be better for it. Cut it short and get used to cutting it short with girls who do not give you what you want (not really referring to sex there).
Not all girls play head games but at your age you can bet they all are doing it to some extent but not necessarily on purpose. They are just like you, immature and stupid. So - since you're asking you obviously recognize something about it isn't right. Which means you've evolved past it. Most guys fight this evolution and remain stupid and chase girls who have already decided they aren't going to give it up. So move on man; she's already decided.
I'm a firm believe that guys and girls can very rarely just be friends - especially after romantic entanglements.
I can count my female friends I think on one hand. Most of those are my wife's friends who are around alot. Friends I have who are female who were friends of mine before I met my wife are two. One who is just a friend and one who is an old flame of sorts.
Now my wife is closer to these girls than I am but they were my friends first. I remember a lot of girls saying "Let's just be friends."
Uh; what exactly is the point of that?
I know CoolChick is going to take issue but I'm prepared for that. There are exceptions but for the most part - I just don't see the point to it.
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I agree about young girls. They have no clue as to what they want.
I don't take issue as it's your life, your business, if you feel that way, then that's your gain or loss. To me, I see it as a loss.
My life: I lived with a guy 2 1/2 years, before he broke up with me. I met my husband, and my ex boyfriend was at our wedding. Those two became rather close. My ex-husband met a girl 4 months after we broke up, she's awesome. I am the one who ended it and was grateful that she helped him to get through it. To this day we're friends. A month ago (get this LOL) I attended a birthday party at HER mother's house. Actually, her mother was rather welcoming to me.
After my ex-husband, I dated a guy for two months....he was such a jerk to date, but was soooo cool to hang out. I remember thinking, omg this guy would be a great friend but sure is sucky to date. Needless to say, guess what, we're friends today. We go out about every third weekend or so, and mosttimes his girlfriend joins us. She's the one who's telling him to call me....LOL
Moral of the story? To me, it's difficult to say I love someone (or really care for them) then to turn around and say I now hate them. This means to me that I must've never cared about them in the first place. I'm just not like that. The reward is having that wonderful friend in my life and seeing them happy with their new girls (well the ex-husband, it's been about 3 years for those two now so I guess that's not so new anymore).
That's the point to me. Wonderful people who care for me and I care for them.