[Jims5543]

My wife and I work hard to stay in good shape for each other, yup it sounds really cheesy.

I noticed the same thing Vash although from a different prespective. I noticed every time a plump chick gets divorced they loose all their weight and look good. 2 on my block did just this. One I did not recognize in the store about 3 months after the divorce, she must have lost 40-50 lbs and looked great. I just saw her again about 2 weeks ago, now 2 years post divorce and still dating from what I gather, now she is augmented too.

I see her Ex from time to time and he looks exactly the same, he was slim when married and after.

David - I agree there is a double standard, I see way too many men with big 'ol beer bellies with very attractive wifes and wonder why the dude would do that to his hot wife and why she puts up with it.