[Nathans_Dad]

Kang, you're missing Jeff's point I think. It's very simple.

I (as a straight man) can marry....a woman. I can't marry a man even if I wanted to. Same thing for gay men. Therefore they have the same right to get married as I do. They just have to marry a woman just like everyone else.

Let's take the example of kleptomania (since you brought it up). From your logic, a kleptomaniac should be able to steal anything they want without recourse, because that's how they were born. The laws of the land should be altered because they can't help themselves. So you would have one set of laws for those of us who are not kleptomaniacs and legalized theft for those that are.