Crazy thread...
PBob's comments are maybe right, maybe wrong. Can't go back in time, stick him in the seat and try it out.
That said, it is all in the tone of the response... PBob, just take a minute to reread your first post. In the future, you may simply want to proofread your post with the Preview Reply button and check your tone, that is all. Here is an example of what I mean:
You walk out of your house and out of the corner of your eye, a baseball is coming for your head from the neighbor kids playing ball. You quickly react (split second stuff, kinda like 100mph into a corner sideways) and drop to your knees and cover your head. Scuff your jeans and hurt your knee a bit.
But the neighbor was videoing the kids playing and after reviewing the tape for about 5 minutes (not split second stuff in hindsight), comes over and says, "Hey that was just a wiffle ball, you coulda just turned and caught it... kinda funny... hindsight is 20/20."
Or, he just says, "What is your problem, all you had to do was catch the ball. Why fall to the ground and cover your head. That was foolish and uncalled for and you scared the children and like an idiot ruined your jeans."
I would laugh with the first comment, and punch the neighbor in the f'ing mouth for the second.
I think you meant the 1st and wrote the 2nd. Trust me, I am not slamming you, or saying I want to punch you or anything like that, because I have stuck my foot in my mouth more than once simply based on tone. I have a scar under my right eye for having that tone as a younger man and needing to put my money where my tone was, learned the hard way to just relax the tone, and frankly, others that now don't like you may have been onboard with you.
Just chill out a little. Maybe watch the Big Labowski and have a black Russian with The Dude
And remember, freedom of speech isn't an excuse to be rude and condescending.