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Originally posted by aways
"it's her body , her choice , her opportunity"... how 'bout her narcissism.
If she's so screwed up in her relationships with men, she ain't gonna make a very good parent, now is she?
I guess the welfare of the child is irrelevant... [/QUOTE]
yeah , oviously it's her fault that her relationships with men wen sour
it is not possible, that the men in her life were dorks
so it must be her fault, and as a result , it is impossible that she could be a good mum
you don't even know any facts about this woman , yet , you are certain that it must be her failure as a woman that made her make this choice.
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Originally posted by snowman
Two things she cannot give the kid:
1 A father
2. A two parents (one man, one woman as two of the same thing dosen't count for much)
She is acting very selfishly and should be prosecuted for child abuse in my opinion. On the whole society should shun her, make her an example of bad behavior to help pervent more people from making stupid decisions.
Since she is a friend support her as advised by the single kids who posted above.
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even a married couple canot guaranteed these things
i have many friend who were born in a marriage, but the dade went AWOL
there are no guarantees, we do not live in the 1950's... relationships are no longer simple
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However, this is how it will be perceived. I hope she's prepared for it, because she made the choice, she will have to walk this path, thorns, potholes and speedbumps [/B]
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fair enough... but the same thorns, potholes and speedbumps exist for a happely married couple.... children are no exact science, they do not come with a manual, true , it's easier with 2 loving, commited parents... but that ain't even a guarantee in a marriage... there's plenty couples where either partner turns out to be a dud, and the other one has to compensate ...
either way, nobody can predict anything