[vash]

good point! i am guilty of the double standard.

let me add, funny story: i went with a buddy to his church. he brought an uncle. and older chinese guy. buddist, totally out of his element. well the tithing time came up. this church passed around a cloth bag. it got to the old man, and for no apparent reason he reached in and pulled out a check and read it. he looks at it and screams,"NO WAY!". i almost peed on myself laughing.