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Originally posted by LubeMaster77
Sex becomes a power if we allow it be. Power is granted. Take it out of the equation and what do women have? Nothing. They become powerless. Now they have nothing to hold over our heads. We can now take our rightful place in the universe becuase we don't care if or when they back that tail in...we will do just fine reguardless!
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Mike, there is no reason why the man and woman cannot have an equal part in the relationship. I do not want the woman to become powerless, I want them to become an equal part of the relationship.
Sex should be fun and a natural part of almost every relationship, and not used against the other partner for any reason. In my marriage we had a rule that we never went to bed mad at each other and hashed things out before hitting the sack. With a German wife that can be interesting at times but it worked!
This is one reason why I usually go out with European ladies. They do not, for the most part, play the sex game. They like sex, feel that its natural and enjoy having it very much. I feel that this is the way it should be.
Hope and assume that this is the way all women should be in the world but it seems few and far in-between here in the states.
So many Americans, men and women, grow up with the concept that their body is always to be covered and sex is done in the dark at night in the bedroom. This leads to the idea that "sex is dirty" and so on. Many of the church's are not helping in this area as I know this was the impression I was given, along with most of my friends growing up.
Enough ranting...
JoeA