[singpilot]

Scott.

Just to set you straight on the pilot thing. Am also over 50 and single. Try talking (usually long distance) to a relationship from the places we travel. 'Hi honey, had lunch in Paris, dinner in Rome, was a horrible day, lousy air traffic, the euro is way up again, I got a room next to the elevator again with no view, and the boss wants to stay another 4 days. How was your day?'

Won't take long for her to 'cancel' the vacation you have planned too. Especially since your idea of vacation is staying home, haha.

The match.com and Yahoo! stuff is OK too, but be careful there. There was a scandal not too long ago about scheduling recently cancelled female lookers to new (paid) male accounts to keep you interested. Some 'schill bidding' going on there too.

Women have a radar that is even better than the Gaydar. It warns them about the recently separated guy over 40. Relax. It will happen.

Spend some money on you. Update the underwear drawer. New shoes, let a trusted female friend go with you to buy some clothes. Pay someone female (MollyMaid) to come clean your kitchen and bathroom.

Try to not call ex's.

Rotsa Ruck.