I need to Vent witrh this one. Listen to this... I'm at a bar tonight with 2 friends. We were meeting with 2 young ladies they work with. As we're introducing ourselves to the girls, in steps the jealous ex-boyfriend. My friends and I are not into girls with baggage so we back off and let them argue away. I notice the guy getting a little too aggressive, and suddenly grab her by the throat. (Keep in mind I notice the bar's bouncer/door guy watching the entire incident) As any decent guy would do I step up and intervene. I never punched the guy or struck him, just wrapped my arms around him and shoved him away from the girl.
The kicker is this: I get thrown out of the bar NOT the tough guy. Door guy says he saw what happened but I was out of line and it's not my job. WTF?? Since when did it become a job to be a decent human being? I find out later tough guy turns out to be a friend of the employess at said bar. I realize there's a time to mind your business and let things be, but this was not one of them.
This is really burnin' me right now and I can't let it go for some reason. Wish there was some recourse
p.s- the lady left with the good guys