[rbarton]

This is pretty personal, but I'll try anything at this point to get some advice and maybe, some kind of hope. I found out 5 weeks ago that my wife was making plans to move out, and was not going to tell me about it until she was gone. I confronted her, and from that point on she has continued making plans and seemingly getting angrier and angrier with me, although I have not been confrontational and have expressed (and shown) a real willingness to change the things about our relationship she has not been happy about. She will be moving out and into a rental property we own within the next week.

Has anyone survived a situation like this and reconciled? If so, how did you go about it? I know I need to give her space right now, which was very difficult at first due to being hurt and confused. When I tried to discuss the situation with her and make anything but small talk she would get angry and say I'm being 'controlling' (her biggest complaint about me) again.

Please, any advice or comments welcome. We have a wonderful 19 month old daughter and I love her and my wife more than anything.