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Originally posted by rbarton
he has agreed to hold off on filing for divorce until she can get her anger under control (she's been in therapy for a few months, mostly for other issues)
Sounds like the therapist is getting kickbacks from a divorce attorney.

Seriously, some counselors are great. Some are intent on reading too much into things and as a consequence tend to create problems where none previously existed. I know of far too many people who went to counseling for one issue and "realized" they were unhappy after their counselor told them so. In those cases its a delicate situation as the person is really under the control of the counselor.

On the other hand, I've been in counseling a few times in my life and had nothing but positive experiences.

I wish you the best of luck.
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