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I'm a child of divorced parents, and I am not hearing the kind of animosity that I saw with my parents. Not every marrige is meant to be, but it sounds like you guys still have a relationship here, on that can perhaps can be sorted out.
I was struck by the fact that you have a 19 month old. My daughter is 28 months. Having a child, especially your first, put enormous strains on your relationship. Even if you have been married for years, you have all sorts of new rolls to fill, and many of the issues involved were not discussed when you were a free wheeling couple.
My wife and I both work like crazy, and value our 'quiet time' when we are not at work. It took some adjusting (and I would argue some maturing). People need time out to do their thing. Do you ever take your child for the entire weekend, and just let her do her thing? Does she do the same for you? Is only one of you employeed, leaving the majority of the child care in the others hands?
Thats stuff that needs to be sorted, but the good news is that it CAN be sorted if you are willing.
Just my 2 cents...
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