[billyboy]

From what I hear and from personal experience, there are two schools of thought in counseling. Directed and not directed. The type we used was non directed. The counselor just asked many questions and never really said to do this or that. It was a total waste of time and money. Now, I'm sure it must work for certain types of people, but not us.I think both of us could've used somebody saying "you are doing this wrong" or "this is a good thing that you do". Instead it was left up to us to figure it out, which is where we were to start with. I wanted a judge and all we got was 1000 questions.