[rattlsnak]

This is all different for everybody obviously, but you have to realize that if she wants out, let her go. Are you willing to waste your short time on earth trying to convince someone to come back,?, or find someone who wants you for who you are? Its always harder on the person who gets shafted. I mean geez, she wasnt even going to tell you until after the fact??? She didnt tell you that there was a problem and try to work on it?

She has her mind made up.