[VINMAN]

The biggest problem is not with my dad, i'ts mainly my mother. She constanly screams and yells at the poor guy when he does something wrong, or forgets things. He's not in the best health, has been in and out of the hospital. Me and my sister constantly yell at her to leave him alone, but to no avail. I realize it's tough on her but she has to let up.
It breaks my heart when I visit them and shes getting on his case.
He had a major stroke about 8 yrs ago, so that was the start of it. Recently the past few months hes getting worse. They still live in NYC where I work, so I get over there as much as I can. But I'm really losing patience with my mother and dont know what to do. I'd take my dad to live with me but I'm never home.