[djmcmath]

1wp, I'll throw out a crazy idea ... is it possible she could become a full time mommy now? How much "tightening of the belt" would it take to make that a reality? It's only for one year, you mentioned. I'm only asking because I've known some couples who were in similar situations. They discovered they were happier with one parent home full-time, even though they had to make some sacrifices.