[RoninLB]

she controls you by making you tense and scattered. When you may be feeling strong with a clear head she probably dreams up some drama to get you back to being tense. She may be discussing her plans on how to deal with you at her hairdresser. They all discuss plans on how they're ready to divorce, control, and wreck their lovers with each other there over a year in advance. Ask any hairdresser to confirm that. Send in a spy with a tape recorder and you may have evidence that will sink her in court.

You're dead meat being human with this one. She's on a mission and you're the target.

"The woman that you have just described will make you an anger bitter little old man."
---------- Words of wisdom imo.
Use a shrink or an assortment of male and female friends to bounce the situation off of to keep a clear head. Female friends are important as they think differently in war.

As a last resort pay someone to seduce her and tape the whole thing. It'll be cheap compared to allowing her to destroying your life.