[livi]

I not sure you good folks can appreciate how much your words mean to me. I am still in a haze from being told so many times I am the bad guy - I have seriously started to believe her. You start to make me feel there is a light in the tunnel and that leaving her will not make me the greatest bastard on the planet.

You should all spend a weekend together writing a manual on these issues. It would hit the best seller list like a rocket. Dr Phil is old news.