[Z-man]

In the present state, I do not think either marriage or running will solve the problem. But I doubt that your relationship is very healthy in its present form either. Something's gotta change...

I seriously believe that some marriage counseling would be helpful. It is always wise to resolve the conflict before making a final decision in a relationship. If it changes you and your spouse's attitude, and you get married, then it was worth it. If it doesn't change you two, then at least you can say you tried the best you could to make it work.

My $0.42,
-Z-man.