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Originally posted by vash
make godamn sure that you open your eyes and see it from her perspective. just take a peek. you dont want to make any life decisions based on a bunch of porsche fan's ideas. i mean, we are smart has hell...BUT.
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Dude, normally, I'd agree. But these statements make me wonder what her perspective can possibly be?
Marcus' original post:
She also disregard my three kids from my former marriage. Disliking me spending time or money on them.
Bad sign. I suspect she feels "jealous" of the other children. They're not hers, they were made with "another woman." This alone is enough to say screw that. Family is family, whether it comes out of my womb or not. His kids would be my kids.
Marcus, she's insanely jealous in other situations too, isn't she?
She claims that if I chose to leave she will make everything she can in order to make it difficult for me to see my daughter. She also promises to make my life a living hell generally.
These are statements she has made to him. Unless he gravely misinterpreted, but that's hard to believe. What else could she have possibly meant?
- I will not have time to let you see your daughter?
- I will be so busy that I'll just have to make your life hell?
What does this mean?
She claims I am hurting our daughter for not marrying her mother.
How is the child hurt? The child is 1 years old. The child doesn't even know what the word "milk" or "doggie" means, let alone the word or concept of marriage.
Nah, Vash, I think this one is not a healthy, balanced relationship, and with hangups like this, I doubt it could be.