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Unfortunately no matter how U cut it your going to be in for a ***** storm...so be prepared....it ain't gona be easy. U are going to be made to look and feel like the worst A-hole in the world...a GUILT TRIP is coming your way.

I would say for your own SURVIVAL your going to have to leave. So start getting your ducks in a row

1. A GOOD Attorney to lay out what you have to do, and what the law says you can and can't do. What your rights are...You have major financial issues to deal with here.

2. Seeing a Shrink, getting some proffessional help will help clarifiy your own position and give you the support you need to see this thing through.

Until you put these two things into action, you have to keep your mouth shut.

THIS WOMAN IS YOUR ENEMY..anything you say or do will be USED AGAINST YOU. So the less said the better. Just the facts max...REMEMBER THIS AT ALL TIMES...DON"T DO ANYTHING U WILL REGRET.

After U get the first two items lined up then... Since she gave you an ULTIMATMUM either just ignore it which will make her angier and angier till she blows... or just calmly tell her your NOT GOING TO MARRY HER either way let her make good on her threats...which presumably is that she will leave you...

She is going to make U look like an ********* but at least U will be an ALIVE *********...

Nobody can do this for you, you have to have the courage to do this for yourself and its a frightening proposition. The most we can do for U is to hold your hand through this and offer our support..GOOD LUCK...