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Originally posted by livi
Well, what spilled over on me from tabs "soap opera" was excellent reading - pure heart nīsoul like every one of your 100 posts.
Joe, I lay awake last night reading print outs over and over for two hours. There is material worthy of a doctorīs thesis. Awesome and humbling.
Don, no time limit has been set besides "Marry me or beat it!". The ultimatum was handed to me a week ago. Repeated several times a day since then. Our home has been a was zone these last days. Me trying to calm it down for the benefit of the children. At one point, one night, I lost it - gave up. Ok, if this is what you really want. Got dressed and opened the front door - mentally just screaming to get away from her. At that point she raised the stakes dramatically. Looking like a total maniac, with a mad, deranged look in her eyes she turned everything around screaming - if you walk out that door I will make you suffer and hurt in a way your nightmares would compare to a pic-nic. You will never see your daughter again, she will suffer - and it will ALL BE ON YOUR CONSCIENCE !!
I just caved in. Puddle on the door step. Closed the door and piled up on the floor. Terrified what she might be capable of.
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Marcus,
She has just made it worse, a lot worse.
Please get a tape recorder and record her the next time she threatens you. Then grab your daughter and go out of the house. Save what you can but your child is most important.
After you are out of the house, call the Police and tell them that you and your child have been threatened by an unstable mate and let them listen to the tape. They should take her away for some time to settle down and that should give you time to get your things out of the house.
If you have some friends at the Police, please call them now and tell them what is going on. You fear for your life, the life of your child and your spouse is threatening all of you. Ask them what they need in order to hold her for treatment. Now is the time to act and for your daughters sake, its not the time to cave in or do anything on the doorstep but walk, with your daughter in your arms, far, far away.
Where are your Mother and Father living? Brother or sister? Can they take your daughter and yourself for a few weeks? Might be an option...
Joe A