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Originally posted by cool_chick
Livi, see a lawyer first. Get a plan in place. Put your ducks in a row. Then, record.
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This thread has brought up many unpleasant memories and I was hesitant to reply. I stayed a total of 10 years. Big mistake.
Never underestimate the lengths she will go for vengance. She has already told you that she will seek to make you miserable, & she will suceed to the lengths you allow her.
Be prepared for your spouse to use your daughter as a weapon against you.
Seek full custody. If you have shared parenting, you might spend most of your time with her deprogramming the crap drilled in to your daughters head 24/7 when with her mom.
DO NOT leave until you have some sort of legal agreement in hand. Once you step out the door, you lose any leverage you may have had.
When things get tough, remember this too shall pass. God bless.